Understanding Premature Ejaculation: Causes, Treatment, and Support Premature ejaculation (PE) is one of the most common sexual concerns in males, yet it is rarely talked about openly. Many males experience it at some point in their lives, but when it happens regularly, it can cause frustration, affect confidence, and even put strain on intimate relationships. The good news? Premature ejaculation is very common and treatable. Let’s break down what it is, why it happens, and how it can be managed. What is premature ejaculation? Premature ejaculation is when ejaculation occurs sooner than you or your partner would like, often within a minute of penetration or even before penetration begins. For some males, it happens occasionally; for others, it’s a consistent pattern that impacts sexual satisfaction. It’s important to know that there is no “perfect time” that sex should last. PE is usually defined not just by timing, but by whether it causes distress or difficulty in sexual relationships. Why does premature ejaculation happen? There isn’t just one cause — PE can result from a combination of physical, psychological, and behavioural factors. Pelvic floor muscle involvement: Overactive or tense pelvic floor muscles can lead to reduced control and quicker ejaculation. Psychological factors: Anxiety, stress, performance pressure, or even relationship concerns can all play a role. Learned patterns: Rushing during sex or masturbation (for example, due to fear of being caught in adolescence) can become a habit that carries into adulthood. Medical factors: Hormonal changes, nerve sensitivity, or underlying health conditions may contribute. How can premature ejaculation be treated? Treatment usually combines physical and psychological strategies. Here are some of the most effective approaches: Pelvic floor physiotherapy Learning to identify, relax, and retrain pelvic floor muscles can improve control. Many males with PE actually have an overactive pelvic floor rather than a weak one. Breathing and body awareness Deep breathing and mindfulness techniques can reduce muscle tension and help manage arousal levels. Behavioural techniques Methods such as the “stop-start” technique or “squeeze” technique, when practiced with guidance, can gradually improve control. Psychological support Addressing anxiety, stress, or negative thought patterns around sex can make a big difference. Sometimes, working with a psychologist or sex therapist alongside physiotherapy provides the best outcomes. Medical options In some cases, doctors may suggest medication (such as topical numbing creams or certain oral medications) if conservative strategies aren’t enough on their own. Why seeing a professional helps Many males try to manage PE on their own but don’t see lasting improvement. A pelvic floor physiotherapist can assess muscle activity, teach you how to use (and relax) your pelvic floor effectively, and guide you through strategies tailored to your body and situation. If anxiety or relationship strain is part of the picture, working alongside a sexual health psychologist or counsellor can be very effective. Conclusion Premature ejaculation is common, treatable, and nothing to be ashamed of. If it’s causing frustration or stress in your life, know that help is available — and you don’t have to put up with it alone. Taking the first step to speak with a professional can make all the difference in regaining control, confidence, and satisfaction in your sexual health.

Prostate cancer is a significant health concern, particularly for men over 50, arising when abnormal cells in the prostate gland grow uncontrollably, forming malignant tumors. It is the most commonly diagnosed cancer in Australia , with over 26,000 cases in 2024 and a lifetime risk of 1 in 6 by age 85 . Early-stage prostate cancer often has no symptoms, but advanced cases may involve urinary frequency, pain during urination, blood in urine/semen, or bone pain. Risk factors include age, family history (especially BRCA gene mutations), and elevated testosterone levels. How Is Prostate Cancer Diagnosed? There’s no single test for prostate cancer. Diagnosis usually involves: PSA Blood Test: Measures a protein made by the prostate. High PSA can mean cancer, but also other prostate issues. PSA testing can help catch cancer early, but it’s not perfect-sometimes it leads to unnecessary worry or treatment. Talk to your GP about the pros and cons for you. Digital Rectal Exam (DRE) : Your doctor feels the prostate for lumps. This is quick and safe, but not always needed-especially if your PSA is normal. Imaging & Biopsy: If cancer is suspected, scans and a biopsy (removal of a small tissue sample) confirm the diagnosis. Your Role in Care Decisions A prostate cancer diagnosis can be overwhelming, but you’re not alone. At Pelvic Health Melbourne, we encourage you to: Ask questions and take notes. Bring a support person to appointments. Discuss all your options. Your treatment will depend on several factors, including the stage of the cancer, your overall health, and what matters most to you. Options may include: Active surveillance (monitoring the cancer closely) Surgery to remove the prostate Radiation therapy Hormone therapy Chemotherapy or participation in clinical trials Take your time. Most prostate cancers grow slowly. You usually have time to consider, seek a second opinion, and decide what’s right for you. Access support . Emotional and practical support-through family, friends, counsellors, or support groups-can make a big difference. The Importance of Pelvic Health Physiotherapy Physiotherapy is a key part of prostate cancer care-before and after treatment . Our team at Pelvic Health Melbourne works closely with you and your doctors and specialists to help you achieve the best possible recovery. Goals of Physiotherapy in Prostate Cancer Care Restore and Maintain Bladder Control: Regain continence and reduce urinary leakage with targeted pelvic floor muscle training and education. Enhance Pelvic Floor and Sexual Function: Strengthen and retrain pelvic floor muscles to support continence and sexual health, especially after surgery. Reduce and Manage Pain: Ease pelvic or post-surgical pain with evidence-based techniques. Support Physical Recovery: Improve strength, flexibility, and stamina to help you return to daily life. Promote Safe, Effective Exercise: Tailored activity helps manage fatigue and maintain muscle and bone health. Educate and Empower: Learn correct pelvic floor activation, self-management strategies, and lifestyle tips to support your recovery. Support Emotional Well-being: Address psychological impacts and help you return to the activities you value. Prevent and Manage Complications: Reduce risks like falls or bone loss, especially if you’re on hormone therapy. Coordinate Care: We work with your broader medical team and refer to other specialists as needed. What Can You Expect from Pelvic Health Physiotherapy? Faster recovery of bladder control and reduced urinary leakage Improved pelvic floor strength and function, supporting continence and sexual health Reduced pelvic pain and discomfort Better understanding of your body and how to manage symptoms Support in returning to daily activities, work, and exercise Improved confidence and quality of life Early referral to physiotherapy-ideally before surgery-can maximize your recovery. Research shows up to 94% of men regain bladder control within three to six months after prostate surgery with physiotherapy support. At Pelvic Health Melbourne, we’re here to help you take an active role in your prostate cancer journey. If you have questions about pelvic health, continence, or recovery, our team is ready to support you every step of the way. For more information or to book an appointment, contact us today.

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