Does your child hide to do a poo?

February 20, 2023

Does your little one hide, reappearing with the smell of poo in their nappy or pants?

Does this image look familiar?

Does your little one hide behind the couch reappearing with the smell of poo in their nappy or pants?


This is a great sign that they're aware they need to poo. This body awareness is only one of the milestones toddlers need to meet before they are ready to toilet train, but it's an important one.


So why does your little one hide?

For some, it may be an embarrassment but for most, it's wanting privacy. This is a fantastic time to introduce them to the toilet as a private space. 


How can you set up your toilet for your little one?

 A toddler-sized seat that sits on top of your toilet

A footstool

 A little bin with a liner

 A bottle of Cheeky Squirt bum gel. Sometimes little bums prefer the feeling of a wipe rather than paper as it's what they're familiar with. With one squirt, your toilet paper will feel like a wipe and is flushable! 

 A fun, bright poster for the back of the toilet door or wall. This is a great way to help your little one relax by looking at things. It could be numbers, the alphabet, Bluey or Cocomelon. 

 Special soap to wash their hands with and their own hand towel. 

 Give lots of positive praise and feedback every time they sit on the toilet whether or not they have done a poo or wee. 

 Dress them in clothing that they can easily get off, avoiding zips and buttons. 


If you have any concerns or need some support, please make an appointment with us or book online.



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